Often, when we are challenged beyond anything we may feel we can get out of, we spiral into a negative mindset and way that reinforces to us that the world is coming down and there is no way out. We often focus on the worst case scenario and everything and anything that will prevent us from moving forward. We often make the situation at hand much more difficult than it has to be. I see this within my Ohana and its hard to be witness to. None of us want to see those close to us in pain. As much as we want to shake them out of it, or tell them the what and how to get through it, we often can not. There is a reason for this. You see, we as those who are suffering and in pain hold the answers to the solution, often it is right in front of us. We just have to ask ourselves "are we able and available to see it?" I know those in my Ohana that are in this place will get through it, and one day will be in a better place. I know it will take a tremendous amount of effort, risk, challenge, and all that goes into changing for the better. I know that they all deserve to have a life filled with the wonderful gifts that life can afford. The ones they dream of, the moments that keep them up, bring tears to their eyes, and question them on a constant basis. I know they can get there, I believe in them, and I am available for them... Stay present my Ohana. Believe in yourself. Trust that your headed in the right direction. You do it without thinking!!!
There is a solution to every problem as long as you don't fear the path to the solution.